There is a principle at force that causes fearfulness. It says that as you think in your heart, so are you. Thus if you think going to the gym for the first time is scary, it will be. But the real question is “Why are you really scared?”
Let’s be real. In my experience the real reason you are scared is “because of what ‘you think’ other people will think of you.” It’s because you don’t feel worthy of the blessings of health and because of that fear you don’t believe you are worthy of love, connection and belonging. You think people will think you’re out of shape and heaven forbids they think you’re fat.
Here’s the truth. You gotta understand that gyms are for fat people wanting to get thin. At the gym there are a lot of people there that also had to go for the first time. Everyone will be so happy you are there because it will relive the courage they had to exercise for the first time they went!
Then if you encounter some idiot who is into them self and they say something mean to you, its because they don’t feel good about them self! Have a judgement thrown at you is always a reflection of the person that said it.
Ok? Now if you really believe what I’ve said and overcome your fear, let’s talk about some practical steps to get you there!
Steps to make your first gym visit a happy experience
Ask others for their recommendation of a good gym.
- Schedule a time to go. Write it in a calendar. There will be less chance you brush it off if you’ve scheduled it.
- Stop at the front desk and ask for help for your first visit. Most gyms will gladly show you around the entire facility. Most also have fitness professionals that will help you for free for 1 or more visits. Use this!
If you don’t have a professional to help you then do an easy routine. I recommend doing some time on an elliptical machine. It’s easy on the joints and will allow you to get your heart rate at a good first visit rate. The rate I recommend is to subtract your age from 180. As an example, if you’re 54 years old then your heart rate on the elliptical machine would not exceed 126 (180-54). Stay on it at least 30 minutes for your first visit.
- Go home and have a quality protein meal within 30 minutes of ending your exercise.
- Be happy!
If you haven’t been to the gym or worked out in a long time and you start with the elliptical you can expect to feel great afterwards without to much soreness. That will motivate you to go again! You feel great for several reasons:
- You started!!!!!!
- You feel good about yourself!!!!!
- Your brain received much needed oxygen!!!!!
- Your lymphatic system was stimulated an your body removed harmful waste!!!!
We are so proud of you!!!
Oh yea. Remember that principle I discussed about thinking? So as you think you’re a bad ass healthy fitness geek in your heart, so are you! It works for positive results just like it does when you’re scared!!!