Chameleons are known to change colors. The truth is they only get darker or lighter. A brown chameleon lives in surroundings that are brown and a green one amongst a green environment.
They do that for protection.
Adults do it to. They like living amongst an environment that is just like them self. The protection they seek is against being called out for being different.
That’s the problem really. In our world today when it seems people want to be noticed they seek everything that is like them and are never noticed.
Who do you notice the most? Are the people you notice just like you or are they different?